Friday, September 11, 2015

Creative Travel Plans

Last summer I started posting pictures on Facebook from my daily walks. They were taken with my IPhone and were just things I happened upon by chance...no fancy cameras, no filters, no editing. My Facebook friends started giving me some very positive feedback. I was more than surprised, I was slightly overwhelmed. In August of 2014, I purchased a new Canon T5i camera with my UK trip in mind. It has a lot of flexibility, but it is lightweight and not too bulky.

As I started the serious planning of my UK trip, I knew I needed to be prepared to take any photo I wanted. To accomplish that, I signed up for classes at Bedford Photography in Oklahoma City, where I had purchased my camera. My instructor, Christian Bruggeman, encouraged me and has been a wonderful mentor in my photography journey. He has worked with me on both the composition of the my photos and the editing. He has definitely built my confidence.  I still have a lot to learn, but the learning curve has flattened out a little.


Last year I started following several organizations and businesses on Facebook with a focus on those in the UK. I don't remember which Facebook page featured the photo shown to the left, but it immediately caught my eye. I love trees and misty landscapes. They evoke strong emotions in me. There was a link to the photographer's Facebook page...Mark Littlejohn. I was mesmerized by his photos! Stunning landscapes, misty mornings, gorgeous black and white scenes...I felt an immediate creative connection. I browsed his website and read that he offered photography workshops in the Lake District of England.


So....on October 12, 2015, I will spend the day under the instruction of Mr. Mark Littlejohn, UK Landscape Photographer of the Year for 2015. He has promised me a visit to the stand of trees featured in the photo above, plus other stops around the stunning Lake District of England.  Oh...and a great lunch at a local eatery.  I am beyond excited! Mr. Littlejohn's attitude about photography and his willingness to share the "hows" and "whys" of his photos are not common traits among some photographers.


I will take advantage of this opportunity to improve my photography skills and meet some new people. I will be open to whatever beautiful scenery the day provides, and I will be appreciative for the experience of working with an artist who shares my tastes in photography. I know I will be nervous, but when I think about it, I can't help but smile! 

Please enjoy the photography of Mr. Mark Littlejohn! http://www.markljphotography.co.uk/


P.S. I am in the process of booking another photography workshop in the Scottish Highlands!  I will let you know those details when it is finalized! 

Thursday, August 27, 2015

UK Trip Prep: The Best Investment

 This is by far one of the most personal and lengthy blog posts I have ever written. But I think it would be a disservice to myself and to anyone reading this to sugar coat my truth. As most of my family and friends know, I believe in calling a spade a spade…so here we go!

During the summer of 2014, I got more specific about the experience I wanted for my UK trip. I wanted to be physically strong and conditioned to allow me to do anything I wanted on the trip. 
Segments of my trip will be very active…hiking with friends in Snowdonia, the largest National Park in Wales…experiencing a coastal hike on the Isle of Skye with a local historical group…walking the Quiraing, a landslip on the Trotternish peninsula (take note of the picture….it is breathtaking!)…or scrambling the Black Cuillins…or sea kayaking…or a boat ride to the Outer Hebrides. The main point is to be physically ready for any and all opportunities that arise.

Now I have been quite fit at times in my life, but this wasn’t one of them. Injuries and fear of being reinjured, overwhelming time commitments, and basic neglect for my health had left me deconditioned. Things needed to change. I wanted additional accountability and to truly be a student of the experience.  So, this summer, I joined a facility in a nearby town and hired a personal trainer….Joe Johnsonbaugh. I asked to train with Joe based on the recommendation of my physical therapist. I have since realized that he has a well-earned reputation for tough training, but he is incredibly passionate about helping others succeed. His vast experience in training is obvious and I feel privileged to work with him.
In our first conversation, we discussed my goals and when Joe suggested a 6:30 a.m. workout time, I balked! I am not a morning person. But as we discussed other options, I realized that I had to commit to some very big changes or this wasn’t going to work. That is how this night owl came to have an early bedtime, a wake-up time of 4:30 a.m., and pre-workout breakfast of a protein shake. All of these were very big changes!

When I joined the facility, I completed an initial health assessment. The assessment measured several areas of fitness plus some basic bloodwork. Those results were humbling to say the least, but I have learned in recent years that denial doesn’t solve any problems. So, I took those results as more reasons to make positive changes…more reasons to make my health and happiness a priority.

Training day #1…..Misery!! Serious misery!!


At our first session, Joe took my measurements and put me through a physical assessment. I had to complete five repetitions of four exercises with a total of ten sets. It sounded simple enough. Well….I don’t know what my time was, but it was slow. I got sick in my stomach several times. I had to stop and rest. If I thought the blood work results were humbling, this assessment absolutely floored me. I quickly realized how much I had babied myself through those recent injuries and how much I had neglected my body. I struggled.  Joe was encouraging and challenging at the same time, but he must have been wondering if I would stick with it. Well, I made it through and was so sore the next two days I could barely walk. But I was also proud of myself. I hadn’t quit.
Over the course of the next couple of weeks, Joe guided and coached me through my workouts. Some of the exercises were accomplished with relative ease, while others still haunt me because I never quite mastered them. During those first weeks, I iced sore muscles, wore Max Freeze like perfume, and took an antacid tablet every morning on my way to the gym. My Advil and foam roller were always close by (I am not kidding…one roller at work, one roller at home and a travel size roller in my car), and stretching became a serious part of my daily routine. My body was completely shocked, but it slowly began to remember what it feels like to be fit.

During the first few weeks, I was intimidated by the weight amounts Joe expected me to lift. I didn’t look at the numbers because I didn’t want to know. Then I noticed a shift in my thinking. Now, I want to know what I am lifting. I want to mentally prepare and I look forward to the challenge of the lift. I noticed other things were changing as well. I began to hone my nutrition and planned my food choices around my workouts and not on a whim.  Believe me, nothing will encourage healthy food purchases like grocery shopping immediately after a session with Joe. Don’t even change clothes. Just march in there with your hard-earned sweat and red face. Frozen pizza or processed foods won’t sound the least bit appealing.
Joe’s workouts definitely didn’t get easier as we progressed, but my body and my mind adapted. I was no longer nauseated during my workouts, my muscles recovered more quickly, my energy levels increased, my confidence grew and he taught me to appreciate my struggles. I now look forward to each workout. I truly enjoy putting my body through something it hasn’t done before and it feels great to push my limits physically and mentally. I definitely have a long way to go, but I am loving the process!

My training sessions became more that preparation for my trip. Each workout teaches me something about myself. Some things are a rediscovery, while others are completely new. So with each press or squat, I feel more like myself. I believe in my body again. My mind and my body are becoming trusted partners. The day Joe and I finished Phase 1 training, I sat in my car and cried tears of joyful relief. It was the best feeling…a feeling of accomplishment and an affirmation that I can do whatever I set my mind to do. I may struggle, but I won’t quit. For years, I was told by someone close to me that I was undisciplined…that I couldn’t finish anything…that I didn’t have focus. Eventually, I believed them. Now I am rewriting that script.  
 

 My favorite Trainer Joe quote to date:

The struggle is what makes it worth it. When you conquer the trail and you stand there and take a deep breath and say, “I did it!”


A few weekends ago, I hiked the Gloss Mountains near Fairview. The purpose of the hike was to get used to my new trekking poles, break in my boots a little more, and to test my physical conditioning in a hiking situation. The results of my hard work were immediately obvious.  I navigated the 150 stairs and the rocky terrain with energy to spare. My training is doing exactly what Joe said it would…preparing me for the activities of my trip. With that hike, my motivation has increased even more.


So…I am eight weeks into this experience and have about six more weeks of training before I fly to London. I don’t know what my new training goal will be when I return from my trip, but I can guarantee that I will have one. The investment of personal training is the best investment I have made in myself in a very long time and I don’t plan on stopping. Thank you Joe!

Lastly, I feel obliged to share a few of the measurable changes that have occurred in the past eight weeks.
·        As I write this blog, I am wearing a pair of jeans and a shirt that haven’t fit for the past three years. (Yes, I kept them that long even when I couldn’t wear them…..they are old favorites!)

·        My blood pressure readings at week 7 were 122/55 and 116/65 with a pulse reading of 61 beats per minute. These are my best blood pressure readings in the past 20 years.

·        Triglyceride levels dropped from 227 to 77 in six weeks.

·        HDL level (good cholesterol) increased 6 points in six weeks to the highest reading I have ever had.

·        My movement is easier and my flexibility is greatly improved.

·        My sleep is more restful.

·        I am physically stronger with an increased endurance for daily activities.


I will post again on my training right before I leave on my trip. I have no doubt that I will continue to see more positive changes.

 


 

 

 

 

 

Sunday, August 16, 2015

Inspirations of Wanderlust


As with most things in life, my United Kingdom trip was planned through inspiration from others. While I knew I wanted to travel to the UK at an early age, there have been several people who have inspired, encouraged, and mentored me toward taking this traveling plunge. And they have done so without even knowing it.  One person, in particular, has had a powerful impact on my trip. His influence has played a role in everything from inspiration to the specific dates of the trip.

I met Andy Elliott in 2000 when he traveled to the U.S. to coach soccer camps during the summer months. He was only in Perry for a week, but we remained in contact through emails and then social media. To say Andy is an adventurer is an understatement! I have lived vicariously through his trips as he has traveled to Tanzania, scaled mountain peaks, cycled in 100 mile bike races, and traveled around the world….no literally, traveled around the world!


Andy inspired my trip in several ways. First of all, his attitude about travel is refreshing. He seems to dive in to a culture and gets to know the locals. I am adopting that same attitude for my trip. Secondly, Andy is a basic traveler. He doesn’t need a fancy room or a lot of luxuries when he travels. In that way, he and I are definitely kindred spirits. His travels have shown me a way of traveling to which I feel very connected. Andy has also been a wonderful source of information as I planned my trip. He offered advice on accommodations, car rentals, and many other things. But the thing that impacted my trip plans the most was an offer from Andy to take me hiking in Snowdonia in Wales.

When I started planning my trip, I knew I wanted to hike in Snowdonia. The views are breathtaking and every time I saw or read something about its beautiful mountains and valleys, I felt a stir. In one of our first Messenger conversations, I mentioned to Andy that I knew I wanted to hike Snowdonia. He told me that he has taken groups there and offered to do the same for me. I was thrilled! As our conversations continued over the coming months, Andy offered to also be my tour guide for the southern part of England where he lives. It simply doesn’t get any better than that! A local perspective and viewpoint is exactly what I want for this trip.
So…when Andy gave me the dates of his fall break, that was the starting point for planning the trip dates. Everything has revolved around his generous offer to act as my guide and host. Once the dates for staying with Andy were set, it was time to start penciling in my other adventures. The time with Andy will be how I end my trip...a wonderful reunion and the perfect ending!

The other person who has influenced my travel dates in Liam Sweeting. Like Andy, Liam came to Perry to coach our local soccer camp. The year was 2009 and everyone felt an instant connection with the young soccer coach. He simply fit with our community. Liam and I have been in communication about my trip also. I was hoping to schedule a visit with him while in England.  A few years ago, he moved to London...the perfect location for a visit, since I will be flying into London.
This summer, Liam returned to Perry with his fiancé, Daley, as they traveled Route 66 from Chicago to Los Angeles. Their sense of adventure and easy manner of traveling are another great example for my trip. While they were visiting, we looked at our schedules and the best dates for my London visit. As destiny would have it, Liam is off the weekend after I fly into London. Perfect timing! I want to catch some of the major tourist sights, but I also want the flavor and feel of local London. Liam and Daley have also offered me a place to stay. I am overwhelmingly blessed. Not only is that a great comfort as I get acclimated to the new culture, but it is allowing me to do some other exciting things while I am on my trip.

 There are segments of my trip where I will be traveling solo and venturing out on my own. But it is nice that I am starting and ending my trip in the company of friends. I will fly into London and have a few days with Liam and Daley. Then, I will meet Andy in Liverpool two weeks later as we travel to Wales to hike and southern England to sightsee. I can’t help but smile as I write this blog. This truly is a trip of a lifetime and I am blessed to have friends that are playing such a pivotal role in making it happen.
The countdown is now 52 days! That makes me panic just a little bit...there is still so much to do!

 

 

 
 
 
 

 

 





Sunday, July 26, 2015

Why the Isle of Skye? (Or...what in the world are you thinking?)

I started this blog several years ago, but I abandoned it for almost as long.  Recently, there has been interest in several of my current life ventures, in particular, my trip to the United Kingdom this October. So, I am reestablishing my blog with the purpose of journaling the current preparations for my trip. Of course, the content will change to the adventure of the trip itself when the time comes. 

Many friends and family members have questioned my decision to spend so much time in a country where I have no ancestral or personal connection. They have questioned the sanity of a single woman traveling alone. And they have pondered why I couldn't just stay in the United States. After all, there is plenty to do here! I have decided that a person either understands my wanderlust or they don't. I was 14 years old when I saw an article featuring the countryside of the UK. It was in Seventeen magazine. Follow that with the PBS series, All Creatures Great and Small, about an English country veterinarian, and I was smitten. Since then, I have been drawn to the art, history, culture and beauty of a land I have never seen. And as I stated, you either get that....or you don't. And either one is fine with me.

The decision to make this trip was made in 2007. I was reading a copy of Smithsonian magazine and the cover story was about Wainwright's Coast to Coast Walk in England. I was mesmerized by the thought of traveling across the countryside of England, staying at little inns along the way. I took the magazine home with me and placed a brightly colored sticky note on the front cover. Written on the note was the statement, "When I am 55!"  I had eight years to make it happen and everything is right on schedule. I turned 55 in April of this year. And while my itinerary does not include the actual course that Wainwright recommended, it is full of hiking and trekking.

As with many dreams, life got in the way and my focus was directed to some big life changes. Five years ago, I found myself living on my own and for the first time in a very long time, I began to revisit my personal dreams and desires. At the top of the list was my UK trip! I made a list of things I needed to do and started checking them off one by one. The first item on the list was getting my passport...check!

I started researching more intently in 2013, and discovered a charming stone cottage on the Isle of Skye. I printed off the information and tucked it away among my other travel books and maps. In early 2015, as I began booking lodging and making more concrete plans, that little stone cottage kept jarring my memory. But I couldn't remember it's name or location. I dug through my large stack of papers and maps and finally found it. When I looked at the photos of the tiny cottage, it felt like the perfect place. So...the first concrete part of my UK trip was soon booked...Fossil Cottage. I will be there for a week in October. It is incredibly charming and has local wildlife to keep me entertained! It has a great location for exploring the Isle of Skye and the mainland of Scotland. You can learn more about Fossil Cottage on their website.  http://fossil-cottage-skye.co.uk/





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Monday, March 5, 2012

Gratitude Gourds Art Show and Sale

Plans are being finalized for the first Gratitude Gourds Art Show and Sale.  The informative event is scheduled for Friday, March 30th, in the funky and eclectic HeBrews Coffeehouse and Deli in Perry, Oklahoma.  A collection of gourds will be on display along with the story behind each gourd's creation or the lesson learned through the creation of the gourd. 

I will be debuting a very special gourd at this show.  Several years ago I walked a labyrinth as part of a three-day silent retreat at a monastery.  During my second journey to the center of the labyrinth I received a series of answers to a personal prayer.  My "Lessons of the Labyrinth" gourd features the nine messages that God presented to me on that mild April day.  It is the first gourd bowl I have created for my own spiritual practice and I am very excited about sharing it with the public. 

The art show audience will have the opportunity to learn how Gratitude Gourds are made....both the physical process and the spiritual process.  A wide-variety of Gratitude Gourd will be available for purchase during the show, representing different artistic styles.  Also on display will be gourds that have been gifted to my family and friends.  I have borrowed these gourds from their owners to show the audience a more broad display of styles and creative options.

In addition to the display of art, show attendees can also try the complimentary cookies and scones baked by Tina Ahern.  They are wonderful!  Tina and Brian Ahern are the owners of HeBrews which has become a popular breakfast and lunch time destination for local Perry residents.  The walls of the deli are decorated with artwork created by the Ahern's children.  Specialty coffees and smoothies will be available for purchase during the show and complimentary iced tea and water will be provided.    

I look forward to sharing my artistic journey with everyone from 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. at HeBrew's on March 30th.   



This gourd features an overall vine and leaf design and will be available for sale
at the Gratitude Gourds Art Show and Sale.  The interior is dyed
dark brown and the opening is trimmed with brown leather, gold wire and
a variety of gold beads.

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Sunday, February 26, 2012

Cleaning Gourds....You Never Know What You Will Find

One of the most rewarding and most frustrating steps in creating gourd art is cleaning the dried gourd.  When the gourd dries, it becomes coated in a layer of mold.  This moldy layer varies with each gourd.  Sometimes it is thin and easily removed by soaking the gourd in water and scrubbing it with a plastic or copper pot scrubber.  But other times the layer of mold is very thick and is resistant to the cleaning process.  These gourds are not only soaked in water and scrubbed but are also scraped carefully with sharp wood-carving tools or an exacto knife to expose the smooth hard skin of the gourd. 

After the layers of mold are removed, a unique pattern is left on the shell of the gourd.  Some gourds have very little pattern while others are completely covered with dark shapes and lines.  I have learned from the cleaning process that I have to work with whatever I find under the mold.  I must use the natural pattern of the gourd to create my work of art.  So it is with life.  I must work with the natural pattern of what comes into my life and add my own creative touches to cultivate the life of my choosing.  Only in working with what I have been given will I be able to stay true to the natural beauty of the gourd or of my own life.   



 
A dried gourd covered with a heavy layer of mold.
After the gourd is soaked in water for about 30 minutes,
it is scrubbed with a plastic scrubber to remove the layers
of mold.  This process is helps to reveal the unique patterns
that naturally occur on the gourd.

Some gourds must be scraped with an exacto knife or wood-
carving tool to remove stubborn layers of mold or dried
membranes from the surface of the gourd. 
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"Creativity is God's will for us and should be practiced like any other spiritual practice - a day at a time."  ~  Julia Cameron

Friday, February 17, 2012


The week of Valentines Day seems to be the perfect time to ponder love and romance.  I have created several gourds as wedding gifts, but today I received the first request for an anniversary gourd.  I am excited about the possibilities for the gourd and anxiously waiting to receive the request form.  Until then, I thought I would share photos of a couple of the wedding gourds I have created. 

 
Featuring a quote from Anodea Judith, this gourd
was a gift to a dear friend.  Life circumstances kept
them waiting 20 years to marry.  The names of the bride
and groom as well as the date of the wedding are on the
underneath side of the gourd.




The back of this gourd features part of the scripture
from 1st Corinthians 13....the love chapter of the Bible.
I created this gourd for my niece and her husband to
celebrate their marriage and life together.  The front
features a large monogram, the date of the wedding, and
the names of the bride and groom.



This gourd was a special order to celebrate the marriage of
two young people.  Not only does it feature verses from 1st Corinthians 13,
but their names and descriptive words about the couple are hidden
within the vines and flower buds.